[PLEASE NOTE: THIS IS IN THE PROCESS OF BEING UPDATED FROM AN OLDER FORMAT TO A NEW WORDPRESS FORMAT, SO PHOTOS AND FONTS ARE ALL OVER THE PLACE. BEAR WITH ME!]
(Most of us hit a career bump with an insufferably bad boss. Perhaps once in a lifetime you’re privileged to work with a boss who encourages, mentors, and literally changes your life. For me, that is TV journalism’s legendary Phil Sturholm.)
This is the tipping point in life, my life: I am attending more funerals than weddings, receiving more terminal illness announcements than birth announcements. It just is that way…
Today, tears flowed at a touching funeral mass of hope and reconciliation, and later laughter flowed as we reminisced over cheeseburgers, fries, and candy bars (his favorite foods!) at a heartfelt farewell celebration for a friend, mentor, and the best boss in my career: our legendary Phil Sturholm, nicknamed ‘The Chief.’
ENCOURAGING…
Winner of 33 Emmys (he used them as doorstops), Phil encouraged me in my work at KIRO-TV, Seattle’s CBS affiliate, and became my boss when I shifted into reporting. He nudged me when the Soviet Union fell — to take a chance. And I did: reporting in Russian as a senior correspondent for Soviet TV with an audience of 50 to 70 million, and later working in Moscow’s ABC News bureau.
When I returned to Seattle in the mid-’90s, Phil and I worked together at a Paul Allen-funded Seattle dot-com startup, where I created and anchored interactive video news packages and Phil shot and edited them for a brand-new medium called “CD-ROM,” and later the “World Wide Web” – today known as the “internet.” It was an incredibly exciting time; Phil was so game to embracing all those dizzying changes in our news mediums, and in our news coverage. Few in the world were doing what Phil and I were crafting: the freedom to “make it up” as we went along in a brand-new medium that has become standard TV/video/online news today.
GRAPPLING…
There is something quite stunning about working in TV news: The friendships forged in the face of television’s breaking-news adversities, deaths, and dramas are lasting; no other place I’ve worked comes close to the meaningful friendships so long ago rooted at KIRO-TV. In my deepest disappointments, Phil encouraged me, even as I listened to him ask ‘why?’ in the face of the senseless murder of his brother, Larry – a reporter who also had worked at KIRO-TV. His wife and family were so kind to me as well, as Phil and I often edited videos at his home studio, breaking to talk along the way. Over the years our conversations yielded no obvious answers to anything Phil and I discussed. It was just that way, with no easy endings…
GRACE…
Years later, Phil came to terms with that brutal loss of Larry: meeting his brother’s killer in prison, dealing face-to-face with grace, forgiveness, or not. After that encounter, Phil chose to be baptized, blessed, reconciled – bestowed grace, even as he offered grace…
Phil died the way my father died: instantly, of a heart attack. My dad was on the phone talking with my sister; Phil was taking out the trash. In a way, it’s fitting there was no breaking-news dramatic ending, just the ordinary stuff of life… As with my father, I didn’t get to say goodbye to Phil, so this is my farewell.
We will forever miss you, Phil, grateful that you touched our lives and encouraged us in our dreams…
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